Ramming a dildo up yr boyfreinds ass

[spearchukka]

Some good advice here......pencil (eraser first), pinky finger, ring finger, tube of lube, dildo........so I taped them all together and it wasn't that bad. I personally like to wrap my CCG around a large orange, little bit of tape and Roberts ya Mothers brother..........vitamin C levels are right up there!

 

[JahDucky]

I can help with the pleasurable spots.

The P spot(yes...prostate) is the male equivilant of the g spot and can be triggerd by applying preasure to the taint as the man ejaculates but the best way to get it up and going is to take a finger or two slip em in just a little and give it a tickle. You dont have to go to far in...maybe 2 or three inches is fine(like the g spot)

 

[rideitlikeyoustoleit]

Start small, make sure it's clean, and be gentle until they are relaxed.

Oh, and LUBE! Seriously!

 

[Rash L]

yay for taint massages!

 

[oldmanLee]

Franny,my hat's of to you girl!Remind me some day to tell the story of why one ostrich skin engineer boot was hung up in a rose trellis in North Little Rock .........

 

[dirtyfacedan]

This thread needs more trains.





No...wait...maybe not.

 

[xmaggotx]

so...im actually going to post a serious response, because i've been thinking of making a zine on this (and prostate health) anyway...

rubbing or pressing the taint during or before orgasm wont stimulate the prostate. however, pressing the taint before and during orgasm DOES stop a man from cumming (while still experiencing the orgasm, he wont ejaculate)... but thats another subject. i personally have a cheap prostate stimulator butt plug for this purpose, since its difficult to do a reach around in most positions, and any amount of fingernails can hurt if you aren't doing it to yourself. i have a water-based lube (personal choice since it doesn't contain animal glycerine). i bought a small toy when i got mine since it had bn a while since i had done any anal play, but now i kind of wish i had gotten a larger one. maybe somewhere in the middle...ask your man.

my toy has a small loop on the end for your finger to go through, which makes it easy for me to use when my girlfriend is on top or fotr her to use when i am on top... but its a matter of personal preference. as for the shape, its nice to have something with a bulbous end, and a curve...the male "p-spot" is in roughly the same place as its female counterpart.

as for prostate massage not during sex...he should do it himself first, a good position in on the knees, head down. then use the middle finger (obviously lube it up) and basically go in a couple inches, while applying pressure towards the stomach, until he finds a walnut size lump (i had a hard time finding a lump myself, but i definitely felt when i hit the spot) and slowly apply a "come here" motion while applying pressure, starting behind the prostate, and extending down past it. just keep doing that and eventually he should feel like he's going to pee...he wont, but sooner or later a small amount of discharge should come out of his dick. its asically just the non-sperm part of semen, and its actually build up, and full of toxins that he just expelled from his body, so wipe that shit up and throw it out. thats a pretty general idea ut i think its pretty good...let me know if you want more info

 

[smellsea]

don't listen to the poster above me to be true punx you shove it in dry and thrust as hard as you can
it's even better if it isn't consensual

 

[Rstank]

Well, this thread is down right SICKING!!! I mean really people is there nothing else to talk about??? It would be bad if someone under 18 would pop up and find this thread... Mods better think about this stuff!!!!!

kids under 18 have sex all the time what about this is any different than the subject of any under age sex.....it didnt say shoveing a dildo up your under age boyfriends ass it said a very general topic.....and to point out many people think it is unethical but in my oppinion if you care about a male partner as much as he cares about your pleasure you would know that his ass has all the senstive areas and if you want a mind blowing orgasm thats where you look for a man.....post in general topic under age sex im sure youll have a nice discussion there but your comment is neither constructive or helpful it seems just blissfully ignorant of the male anatomy....maybe we should have the mods look out for unhelpful post rather than ones that arent appropriate for age groups....and i dont know any way under age kids that would make a profile for a traveling site anyway.....8yr olds hoppin trains and shit......ridiculous how could they climb up in that box car anyway

 

[Rstank]

so...im actually going to post a serious response, because i've been thinking of making a zine on this (and prostate health) anyway...

rubbing or pressing the taint during or before orgasm wont stimulate the prostate. however, pressing the taint before and during orgasm DOES stop a man from cumming (while still experiencing the orgasm, he wont ejaculate)... but thats another subject. i personally have a cheap prostate stimulator butt plug for this purpose, since its difficult to do a reach around in most positions, and any amount of fingernails can hurt if you aren't doing it to yourself. i have a water-based lube (personal choice since it doesn't contain animal glycerine). i bought a small toy when i got mine since it had bn a while since i had done any anal play, but now i kind of wish i had gotten a larger one. maybe somewhere in the middle...ask your man.

my toy has a small loop on the end for your finger to go through, which makes it easy for me to use when my girlfriend is on top or fotr her to use when i am on top... but its a matter of personal preference. as for the shape, its nice to have something with a bulbous end, and a curve...the male "p-spot" is in roughly the same place as its female counterpart.

as for prostate massage not during sex...he should do it himself first, a good position in on the knees, head down. then use the middle finger (obviously lube it up) and basically go in a couple inches, while applying pressure towards the stomach, until he finds a walnut size lump (i had a hard time finding a lump myself, but i definitely felt when i hit the spot) and slowly apply a "come here" motion while applying pressure, starting behind the prostate, and extending down past it. just keep doing that and eventually he should feel like he's going to pee...he wont, but sooner or later a small amount of discharge should come out of his dick. its asically just the non-sperm part of semen, and its actually build up, and full of toxins that he just expelled from his body, so wipe that shit up and throw it out. thats a pretty general idea ut i think its pretty good...let me know if you want more info

amazing post my friend very helpful :applaud:

 

[JungleBoots]

my best suggestion, is to give him the toy first, and let him figure out how to do it. practice makes perfect.

aside from that this is my breakdown of the anal play process.

COMMUNICATION! use words like "ready?" "you relaxed?" "how do you like that bitch?"

pay attention to body language, and the grunting noises, it might be hard to tell the difference between crippling pain, and glorious pleasure. (which tend to come hand in hand with anal)

painless anal is possible though! if you are patient, and careful. THIS IS NOT SOMETHING I RECOMEND DOING FOR THE FIRST TIME WHILE DRUNK, though he being drunk might actually help a bit.

but other than that, everyone says lube, water based works well for me, but really when it comes down to it spit seems to be the crush the competition, you dont run out and it actually seems to last longer than water based. which type of lube you prefer is something you and he need to figure out along the way.

like everyone said, start small, i go with the pointer finger wriggling them around a bit, you will feel when he relaxes, then after that i move on to two fingers. for me, two fingers is good enough to insert a dildo, a sizable one too... but for most anal newbies keep putting more fingers, four should do the trick for sure. but i mean once you get to four... you might as well toss in the thumb and straight on to fisting... (lol joke lol)

this is the point you check to make sure there isnt any poopie inside, that not only is disgusting, but also painful and unhealthy.

before you insert the dildo you have to make sure it is sufficiently lathered in your lube of coice, any dry spots will stick and cause hemeroids. once you get the dildo/cucumber in there move it in slowly, He will know when hes ready for you to pretty much start fucking him. so again COMMUNICATION!

once all is well start pumping slow, it should start to feel pretty good so long as he didnt get hurt along the way. (the pain of improper butt fucking lasts a while, and is intense, so it can really take a long time settle that pain down again.) once it starts to feel good, at least in my experience the ass is somewhat self lubricating (lol) but add lube at his discression, especially since you cant feel it yourself.

once shit is nice and happy go to fucking town on his ass. It will hurt if you go too deep, especially if you go too deep too fast but i wont lie anal is definately for masochists. and for me the harder the faster the better.

now massaging the prostate is nice, but if you do it too soon and too hard it actually hurts... alot. The prostate is NOT the equivilent of the G-spot, it feels nice but hes not going to have an intense orgasm from it. Like alot of people said the prostate is best to be massaged when near orgasm. for me the pleasure of anal has little to do with the prostate, its more to do with the inward and outward motion of the object and the depth of penetration.

so i guess now that ive dropped some serious TMI on you ill return to my pornography as all of this anal play talk has gotten me somewhat arroused.

kthxbai

 

[partysummer07]

Geez Gudj, I'm glad that this is the very first thread I read on the forum that you urged me to join.

To make this post relevant to the thread I'm gonna go ahead and agree with everyone who said start small, go slow, and use lube.

Also, maybe fewer people gave advice on how to do it "the safest and most pleasurable way" because of your use of the aggressive language, "ram."

 

[Poe Boy]

Don't listen to these friggin guys.

1.) Use a strapon.
2.) Use lube.
3.) Slap his ass until it's really red
4.) Ram the thing in
5.) Either grab a handful of hair, or put on foot on his head
6.) Do a lot of aggressive grunting, pretend you're loving it
7.) Keep yelling "Fuck me back, bitch!"
8.) Pull out and using your "sweet" voice tell him "Ok, your turn!"

 

[Gudj]

Since the description for the Sex & Relationships section got updated, something about this thread has been lost.

 

[wizehop]

Some good advice here......pencil (eraser first), pinky finger, ring finger, tube of lube, dildo........so I taped them all together and it wasn't that bad. I personally like to wrap my CCG around a large orange, little bit of tape and Roberts ya Mothers brother..........vitamin C levels are right up there!

YES! :applaud: Let me know when your in the souther US man

 

[wartomods]

anal is bad for your rectum's health

 

[Shakou]

don't listen to the poster above me to be true punx you shove it in dry and thrust as hard as you can
it's even better if it isn't consensual

OMG You're awesome XDDDD

 

[Matt Derrick]

hmmm, i thought i had already commented on this thread, but apparently not.

originally, i couldn't think of a good description for the sex and relationships section, so made up the description quoted above as a joke. it was only a joke, but im actually really happy to see the positive and helpful comments about this subject. this is exactly why i created this section so we could talk about unusual subjects like this not generally covered in our community (cept maybe in zines).

personally, ive never tried it, but im not opposed to it

p.s. the forum section's description was changed a while back to something a little less in-your-face.

 

[MiztressWinter]

Wait...you've never tried a dildo rammed up your ass? Or anal sex. lol that could be read a few diff ways lol

 

[femmeriotgrrrl]

I don't know a whole lot about this personally. I do know that anal dildo or strap on sex with men is called pegging. A great site for advice is Sexual Health, Sex Toy Info, How-to Guides, Sex Tips and Advice - Good Vibrations. I think consent is really important like taking it slow asking questions and lube(water based if yr using condoms or gloves, silicone if not).