What classifies someone as a "slut"?

[bananathrash]

its science!

 

[Mouse]

I think a SLUT is just a sexually active person who happens to have pissed you off....

the girl that fucked your bf, slut
the friend that ditched you at the bar to get laid, slut
the chick who pissed you off over something completely not connected to sex, slut.

it's just liek calling someone a fucker, asshole, bitch, cunt, dick, ect. You say it cuz you dislike them and want to express it.

 

[A better World]

someone who is an agreed upon monogamous relationship who chooses to venture outside that relationship on multiple occasions that would be the only time i would use the word then again that just might be my own resentment at the situation sometimes i use offensive words such ans nigger cunt slut etc just to prove how arbatrary an issue they are when the real issues are ignored like how almost every girl i know has been raped and my black friends get twice the penalties i do when we get arrested for the same crime

 

[wizehop]

Not all people think being a slut is a bad thing, case and point this CHICK:



...and as with any LABEL it can be used and perceived in many ways. I remember watching a doc about this group that rated porn films in the US and this one prude went on about how degrading it is for a man to cum on a woman's face, and how its wrong..yadda yadda..yet I know many females who crave it..so who the fuck is she to go on preaching about it.
Fact is people attach there own meaning to words.
I don't think Ive used the word slut since high school, since as adults who fucks who and how often really isn't an issue. Plus when it was used it was used by more girls than guys..and they were usual referring to the girls who got all the boys attention...again I guess it all comes down to a form of jealousy and or ease of access IE lets go to the bar and pick up some sluts. either way good or bad like every word is open to personal interpretation.

 

[shwillyhaaa]

i do dislike this word.. but its not too hard to stay away from...
just dont fuck everyone.. not that hard i dont think
i see a "slut" as being someone who just cant keep theyre fucking pants on no matter what
but i would never call them such... i personally think its sad when i see a little girl who seems to think the only possitive attention she can attract is the kind between her legs... or a man whos so affraid of commitment that he just sees women as somewhere to put his dick...
(by the way dont get all pissy just because i mention these two examples... if i wanted to waste an entire day i could name them all)
how about people try staying out of other peoples intimate lives, and focuse on our own...
mines not too interesting but i kinda like it that way

 

[bananathrash]

i like how half of these posts are an attempt to redefine "slut" as it pertains to your lifestyle. while one word can have multiple definitions, any attempt at trying to make such a word survive is fuckin' pathetic.

 

[BanMatt]

I consider it to be someone who puts out because they are emotionally needy. Someone who gets around socially by sex and who feels they have nothing to offer besides sex.

 

[smellsea]

i think cheaters are sluts. that's it.

 

[BrittanyTheBananarchist]

lol. nice nivoldoog

 

[wildboy860]

you may be a slut if you marked " I'll fuck anything that moves " on your profile.

 

[Kalalau]

yeah.. it still pisses me off about that "i'll fuck anything that moves" thing... why they gotta limit me like that... most things don't move... and something that doesn't move is easier to catch.

 

[Arnold]

slut is just another hip word thats used to make the user feel greater than. sexuality is an adventure, if we weren't suppose to do it then it wouldn't have been done =P

 

[Tao_of_Pi]

Wow man, and I thought it was impossible to get conversation this stimulating outside of facebook.

 

[anyways]

The whole concept of a "slut" is a complete double standard. When a guy is called a slut it's a compliment, and when a girl is called a slut it's derogatory.

The only time I think the word is even mildly appropriate is when it involves lies. If you cheat on everyone you're with, that makes you a slut...not because of the amount of sex you're having... but because you're lying about it, and that's low.

I for one get pissed when I hear the word used any other time than that. Just because a woman is enjoying sex and having as much as she wants should NOT earn her a title like that, or any kind of judgement.

Nowwww....if the girl has no self esteem and is just letting herself get plowed by anyone with a dick, that could be considered "slutty" too... and it is. But still, the girl in question should not be berated for this, she should instead be taken aside and taught about self respect and self love.

 

[liz79]

i believe slut is just a derogatory word that implies that the person, usually female, has slept with "too many" people. usually they are wrong when assuming this and usually just use the word to be hurtful just like any other word used when expressing hate or loathing towards someone else. usually its better to just stay out of other peoples sex life unless theyre willing to share it with you, so therefore i see no reason why i should call someone a slut.

 

[bananathrash]

This thread is pathetic. If i have a problem with someone who happens to be a black man, is it alright for me to call him a nigger? Should I evaluate what is deserving of the term nigger to me? Should I also define cunt, bitch, whore, and a whole load of sexist, derogatory nonsense?

The fact is you are using the term BECAUSE it is a slur and everyone knows what it means, and a lot of people have been hurt by being called it. You are using it to be cruel, and because you are too stupid to come up with something to say that has any substance. One who cheats is a cheater, thats it. Cut the shit.

 

[Amish]

eh sluts arent so bad nor are whores yeah derogatory as they may be theres one term thats worse...squat mattress!and i think this is the term your looking for if your describing some one who has no regard to who they sleep with , unprotected, no self esteem,completely apathetic towards everyone and everything and of course not clean/bathed.... even after sex

 

[vandalette]

I like this word:

promiscuous

Function: adjective
Etymology: Latin promiscuus, from pro- forth + miscēre to mix — more at pro-, mix

1 : composed of all sorts of persons or things
2 : not restricted to one class, sort, or person : indiscriminate
3 : not restricted to one sexual partner
4 : casual, irregular

When I'm called a slut, I RAGE. But if someone actually ever commented that I was promiscuous, I might take that as a compliment.

If you get mad that someone calls you a slut then deep down you know your a slut or at least feel as though you are one. Honestly i don't feel like being a "slut" is wrong, promiscuous would be a better word for the way i see it. The only people who call each other sluts are girls and those girls are just jealous of what they can't have and or they are just bitches. I think those girls are just full of gossip and call girls sluts to make them feel better about there low self-esteem. If you sleep with anyone and anything just for the sheer pleasure of getting off, then well.. i say to each is there own. Some people have morals and others don't. Its no biggie. But if you are in a "relationship" and go around cheating on your spouse then i guess i would consider those girls/guys sluts. Because who the fuck gets in a relationship with someone when your obviously not ready to comite yourself to a monogamous relationship. Cheaters just lower themselfs from promiscuous to sluts.
Anyway, if you just like sleeping with someone you connect with, even for just a night. I don't think it makes you a slut. And when people call you a slut for it just laugh cuz they are probably not getting laid.

 

[MiztressWinter]

Christ..are we STILL talkin about this? Slut is one of those terms that everyone in the world will have a different definition for, most but not all will take offense to it, and it's over used by (usually) jealous stupid girls. I've already stated my opinion on this, but I just can't believe people are actually still talking about this? Don't you sluts have anything better to do? *rolls eyes*

 

[jcat]

Slut =
1. A person who sleeps with a large variety of individuals not for pleasure but to manipulate them for the slut's own personal gain. Such as seducing a work superior in order to get a promotion. Normally sluts will tell all their partners that they're the only one in order to manipulate them as much as possible. A slut can just as easily be male or female.

This is how i take the word also!!