When people try to bum smokes off me, or offer me weed or beer, I usually say something like "sorry, i don't smoke/drink/"smoke." they usually reply with "Don't be sorry, that's awesome, you save a lot of money." They say this like it's amazing i don't pay for all this unhealthy shit. And I keep thinking, how is that even amazing? I mean, i mostly just tried that stuff and didn't find it that pleasing, and thought for myself instead of going with the flow. As far as i'm concerned, drugs, booze and cigs are just another form of over-consumption, as none of the three have significant biological benefits to your body. Granted, i'm a cheap ass and grew up in relatively good conditions, which have helped me to say no. I don't mind hanging out with people who do that stuff daily, i just find i can't stick around them for too long because we are invariably influenced by the people around us, and I especially am affected by the attitude of those i hang around with.
As far as alcohol being liquid courage, i wonder 2 things. 1. ) Is it worth building a relationship or confidence suspended by a substance? How will I deal with awkward "morning after" situation, other than another drink? 2.) Who's to say that inhibitions are such a bad thing that they need to be overcome? Often, I think they are, in which case i believe the human experience we share should be enough to talk to a stranger. Other times, in the example of going to the bar and getting tanked so you have the courage to hook up with some chick that could have a disease for all you know, inhibitions are best left in place. I do understand that when the entire party is on this uninhibited social level, and strangers are having a good time with strangers, you will feel very disconnected relatively.
As for drugs and "mind expansion," i believe they do not exceed the capability of actually doing things with your life, putting yourself into new situations. From what I've heard, though drugs can give you all sorts of awesome ideas and unique philosophies that make you feel uber-unique and individual(istic) and like you're into control, they don't generally contribute to any action. They may bring up some cool existentialist ideas, and cause you to question whether you really exist or not. But that shit is useless, and if this is not reality and existence, it's the closest thing we'll ever have. See, the problem is that although alternate realities are cool, they are incredibly hard to fully exist in. It's like waking up from an awesome dream and not being quite able to describe all the details and exactly what happened.
Sorry, this is my one chance to rail against these things. I am less concerned with forcing people to stop buying into consumption, then somehow helping them kick that shit. Whatever these substances are medicating, I believe could be somehow dealt with more fittingly. I just feel like for a lot of traveling/street culture, substance (ab)use is the most immediate oppressive force. If any of you are thinking of kicking some of this stuff, do it, but realize that you may have to surround yourself with different people to do it. It's freedom, though.
OK, enough of my compassio-straight-edge propaganda, lol. No hate.