No I haven't been a victim of "sexual violence".... but I have nearly been stabbed more times than I can count, and on 2 occasions would have been the victim of straight up pre-meditated murder but weaseled my way out at the last second. I just don't really see how it's any worse for someone to be worried about getting raped while walking home at night, than it is for a someone else (usually an older man, or a younger boy) to get stabbed and murdered by a racist gang, completely unprovoked (other than having the "wrong" skin colour, or being on someone's "turf"). Sure they're both fucking abhorrent, but I don't see how one is worse than the other.
Cats are fearless? what the hell are you talking about? If you close a door to loudly cats will run, they are the most flinching animals ever, hence the term "fraidy cat".
And that's your opinion. Don't forget, rape is always unprovoked.
I'm not going to argue about cats with you...
Ok well obviously I understand what male privilege is but I don't understand what you meant by "keep it in check", like, how so?
Just for the record your constant putdowns of "facepalm" and "sigh" are quite unnecessary when people have asked you questions in order to obtain your some of your vast wisdom on the subject and you just throw it back in their face. You could just be friendly about it instead of getting all holier-than-thou, it suggests you care more about proving your own self-importance than educating your brothers and sisters on these issues and moving forward together as a society, or do you just enjoy having lots of things to complain about?
For real easy starters (and I'm not saying you do any of this shit): Don't get involved with street harassment, don't make rape "jokes", don't make assumptions based on gender, don't make "jokes" based on or putting down a certain gender or sexual orientation, don't get all homophobic on queers. Call other people out when they do any or all of that. All of this "simple" stuff effects both me as a womon and you as a man and everyone else on this planet. if we really want to bring humonity to the next level, we have to erase the internalized sexism in our culture first, or the world will never be anywhere close to fair for anyone. MP hurts you and me. So, just like we should both keep our white privilege in check, you have the added burden of keeping your MP in check.
Oh tish tosh, you've never seen me pissed. Consider this a walk in the park on a sunny Sunday afternoon in late spring (let me make a quick point and say that an example of internalized sexism is that I almost wrote "even though I'm menstruating" because for some dipshit reason, society thinks that every womon's menstrual cycle is always a viable excuse for unchecked rage, which, of course, is a total crock of bull. Another example of that is the amount of times I've heard people, even womyn, say sad shit like "I'd vote for Hilary Clinton, but I just don't think womyn should be in office because what if they start a war with Russia because they were on their period?"). Vast wisdom? Well I
was homeschooled... I've argued about this crap more times than I can count. Being friendly usually invites the bullshit I try to avoid. I'm sorry if someone's feels got offended.
The most common MP checklist can be found here:
http://www.amptoons.com/blog/the-male-privilege-checklist/
but this is the best one (not a checklist, but still a dandy article I found a while ago):
http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/11/faq-what-is-male-privilege/