@Wheat2020 In my experience the best thing one can do when having trouble finding a mate is this;
lower standards
If I lower my standards here I'd pretty much only be dating a crackhead. And even THEY won't mess with me because I don't have a vehicle, and I don't have my own place.
So today, I'm going to start making a move towards getting a vehicle because, I just can't take this shit much more. Doing nothing but sitting on the bed doing school work every single day, and my father's already talking about how a DARK AGE is coming upon us, and how before we know it, we'll need to keep stock of our food, and sleep in shifts, and other doomsday shit.
Not saying he's wrong or anything, it's just, I don't want to go out spending the rest of my life holed up with guns like a hermit with my dad. I want friends, and a community, and a love life, and to be useful. I mean, I already have those first two things on this forum, but you guys know better than anyone that sitting in front of a computer can't substitute being out there.
Hell I started this thread half-way joking, half-way genuinely curious, because I'm almost ready to give up on relationships and just have sex, but that's just more loneliness talking.
Like, yeah, if I got to find an orgy or free love for real, it'd be hard to turn down, it sounds fun and all, and sure, relationships aren't anything magical, but it's still what I really want.
So I'm gonna begin my vehicle search today so I can have my own vehicle so I can move around or even leave Tennessee at will, and maybe be of some use to this community, maybe visit some intentional communities to network, and go to national parks on the weekends.
With the
Phage in full-swing, I mean, hitchhiking out of TN would have been a massive bitch BEFORE, but now, it's impossible. Because everyone's scared, and I can't put my father at risk.
Sorry, I don't mean to re-tail or de-rail the topic, I just had like this urge to burst into a rant. I was tossing and turning in my bed trying to get back to sleep but couldn't. I'm really happy this thread turned out the way it did.
🍺 Cheers! And may the random perverted fun continue!