I'm married now and would have to discuss it with wife but I personally like the idea of going in on land but the deed should be held in a trust so that not one person could sell it off.... she's a teacher so distance to a town that would give her a job would be important
For sure on a trust. Then we'd have to deal with everyone pulling their weight on taxes.
To me that would be about the extent of the commune aspect. The rest is up to everyone if they want to share a house or meals.
I don't think buying enough land to farm 100% or even 25% is feasible though. We're talking 100+ acres for that kind of thing.