Female Bi-Sexuality for Attention

[MiztressWinter]

Maybe it's just me...but I can't stand when females play the *bi-sexual* role for male attention. I knew a girl who made out with another girl at a party in front of a group of guys...and later told me she hated the whole thing but did it for the attention. WTF?

 

[steelcitybrew]

I actually have been seeing this sort of thing a lot more often as of lately.

Young girls for whatever reason think.....i dont even know what they are thinking.

But it seems, a lot of young girls are definitely doing it for the attention. And it kind of "urk's" the shit out of me, that these kids arn't gay, and are treating this as a fad.

Just one of those things that piss me off.

 

[MiztressWinter]

Hell it isn't just young girls! Believe me I've seen it happen with chicks of all ages.

I happen to BE bi-sexual. It's not a MAJOR part of my life...but I have been with women...but for my own wants and needs...and certainly not in front of anyone or to impress anyone.

Just another example of how women degrade themselves to try to fit in. disgusting

 

[finn]

I really dislike it because it encourages guys to think that girls kissing each other are entertainment for their own consumption. I really try not to go to parties like that, but sometimes you're just stuck there...

 

[nivoldoog]

Agreed....

 

[stove]

Well, for this group, what I am going to say probably doesn't apply very much. Then again....


Girls whom 'pretent'/'act'/whatever Bi-sexual for attention and entertain is a sad trend. Then again, most folks doing things like this outwardly for attention is disinteresting in my opinion. it's just like wearing pre-ripped/torn jeans and crap like that.


Or, y'know, pretending to hop trains to impress someone.

Or wearing dirty second-hand clothing to make yourself look more crusty.


It's all the same crap, just a different flavor.

 

[tallhorseman]

As long as people will gather in a circle to watch it...Women will do it. Everybody loves attention. The mindset it takes to not want attention is as much a neurosis as wanting it.

 

[oldmanLee]

Agree that it's kind of sad,and really about the attention and not desire.The question I'd like answered is how did it get to be classed as "sexy".I enjoy some privacy when I make out(yes kids,I still do,just don't think about it too long).

 

[stove]

Honestly, if you look back in history, it's not much fo a surprise that this got classed as "sexy." Look at it from a sexually-repressed male perspective: No cock. Therefore, no feelings of insecurity/concerns about possible latent homosexuality. Additionally, it adds to the fantasy of a one-plus (one guy multiple women) orgy. I'm not saying it's right, but it does make a bit of sense.

 

[steelcitybrew]

Honestly, if you look back in history, it's not much fo a surprise that this got classed as "sexy." Look at it from a sexually-repressed male perspective: No cock. Therefore, no feelings of insecurity/concerns about possible latent homosexuality. Additionally, it adds to the fantasy of a one-plus (one guy multiple women) orgy. I'm not saying it's right, but it does make a bit of sense.

"Superbad"
Seth: Yeah, but it doesn't actually show dick going in which is a huge concern.
Evan: Right, I didn't realize that.
Seth: Besides, have you ever seen a vagina by itself?
Evan: No.
Seth: [shakes his head] Not for me.

 

[MiztressWinter]

It's SO nice to hear from males who dissaprove of this kind of behavior. Thanks for the feedback.

Oh yeah...and it's a BIG time double standard as far as how it's *so sexy* for two girls to make out but *so disgusting* for two males to do the same. Bleh.

 

[JungleBoots]

I dont know, yes its foolish, its degrading, and it sets back a great deal of honest feminist work. but at the same time saying that some girls play the bisexual thing for attention gets old to me. I hear it all the time from teens who think they know about the LGBT community and it sickens me. and i think while these kinds of people do exist and it is detrimental to the movement of all gays its a slippery slope to point the finger. I know all too many gays that think all bisexuals are fakes, all bisexuals are sluts, all bisexuals are in it for the attention.

but when it comes down to it when you point the finger at honest people who maybe had a bit too much to drink, or just make a bad decision its far more detrimental to the gay community to seperate them from "true gays" than their "attention craving" is.

 

[carlylanea]

Half of my city claims to be bisexual. It's ridiculous and it's all like freshman girls. They run around making out with eachother, kissing, holding hands, calling eachother their "girlfriends", etc. I happen to be bisexual, and I've asked most of them if they've ever been with a girl sexually and they just go "ew gross."

I WANT to SLAP them. ALL of them.

 

[Skunky]

I agree with you carly.
i've been with a girl, and am looking forward to be with a few girls for a "job" i have.
it makes my stomach cringe about the girls who pretend it.

i find girl/girl and boy/boy is only sexy when you can tell it's the true thing and not for attention.

 

[switch]

I really appreciate this thread and agree with pretty much all of your input, but I'd like to bring up a different point: many youths are in fact surrounded by people all too ready to judge and condemn them for being themselves. I understand where you're all coming from with this, but hearing that it's "disgusting" behavior and that too many people engage publicly in these activities can discourage those who aren't faking it from doing what they want. That might sound like a stretch, but unfortunately my sexuality remained a secret from many of my closest friends for a long time because of this. If it really bothers you, my advice is to just let people do want they want, and avoid "that kind of party".
Also, maybe sleeplessness makes me want to play devil's advocate..?

 

[JungleBoots]

no for sure switch. I understand where everyone is coming from in the thread too. but Its a shame that people think complaining about it is worth their time, there are bigger concerns for the LGBT community, such as helping those who are in the closet, and helping defend the community from discrimination.

 

[Tare]

To me it seems like it's just a new tactic for barbies to let guys know, "heelllooo, if im kissing a girl, then obviously im willing to kiss you", or tease guys and attract in genearal. I think alot of that shit comes from the porn industry and pop music, lets face it, bi is in. So just like the advertising media standardizes beauty, so goes the sexuality, but i think there point behind it is to promote premiscuis youth, and generally demoralize them. Not that i think bi sexuality is amoral, but the majority of this country does, and its medias job is to be the fucking devil. Maybe its her. Or, or, maybe its Mabeline. A pop culture phenomenon?

 

[JahDucky]

I dont want to sound like a psychopath but girls/women who do this make me want to peel their faces off.

I dont think its cool to be something your not and quite frankly it ticks me off a bit(like my friends moms girlfriend who isnt a lesbian at all but trying to rebound from her boyfriend) laaaaaame. but back onto these matters.

Bi is not a fashion statement. It isnt something you show off to be in with the in crowd or the out crowd. I quit claiming bisexuality about 3 years ago when i realized i just like people. and man or woman pda is a no go unless were in love.

 

[BUMJUG]

i make out with men for attention.............

 

[JungleBoots]

Bums got my attention, undevided!