Female Bi-Sexuality for Attention

[veraladd]

maybe she liked it

 

[Rash L]

Bi is not a fashion statement. It isnt something you show off to be in with the in crowd or the out crowd. I quit claiming bisexuality about 3 years ago when i realized i just like people. and man or woman pda is a no go unless were in love.

Amen sistah!

 

[Tare]

My ex has an interesting theory about sexual attraction. She thinks there are no true absolutes, when concerning sexual attraction theres no hetero or homo, no black and white, but a spectrum, like different degrees of either or. Some might lean, more towards one side, but because we are human, it creates the probability of growth and change sexually, to move either way on that spectrum, and that sexual orientation labels inhibit ones growth, and perception of self, sexually and otherwise. The need for sexual orientation is primarily for social control. I kissed a couple guys when i was younger to see if i liked it. Not for me. But i know what i considered attractive when i see it regardless of sex, so maybe there is some validity to that.

 

[wartomods]

they want to do it for attention let them fucking do it for attention, i dont know whats the point of this thread.

 

[JungleBoots]

they want to do it for attention let them fucking do it for attention, i dont know whats the point of this thread.

to bitch :deadhorse:

 

[LilMa]

Hell it isn't just young girls! Believe me I've seen it happen with chicks of all ages.

I happen to BE bi-sexual. It's not a MAJOR part of my life...but I have been with women...but for my own wants and needs...and certainly not in front of anyone or to impress anyone.

Just another example of how women degrade themselves to try to fit in. disgusting

haha amen on the whole degrading part - i am a girl and women are STRANGE!! but for any matter, whoring for attention isn't cool, esp when you're putting yourself out there just to attract males - be witty and cunning and YOURSELF. girls are only fooling themselves when they do shit like that.

 

[JungleBoots]

i come to wonder now why exactly females are being singled out as the largest perpetrayors of this activity?

or why we dont mention the males that find such activity entertaining are in most ways responsible for this? (example: the guy that finds it sexy, the guy that makes jokes about threesomes)

or why we dont mention the media, both popular and fringe, that portray homosexuality as entertaining, fun, and funny? (example: Tila Tequila on VH1, porn, axe body spray commercials)

why dont we talk about the kinds of things that help engage these kinds of activities outside of false individual identities? (alcohol, peer pressure, naive youth, the nagging desire to "be with someone no matter the cost")

everyone on here is so adamant that the origional post is so truthful, but that argument is disturbing in its lack of real investigation, and its readyness to attack people that might not be so guilty in the first place.

 

[LilMa]

hey hey - logical point and case man. i agree with your statement. the only reason that i singled them out was merely the fact that that was mostly where the finger was pointed, but as you said, it really is a bigger picture than just females, but then again I am not judging anyone or have the cannon pointed at a specific group. i am simply stating that from what i have seen and people i have been around is where i find the room to make accusations.

 

[JungleBoots]

and i wasnt stating that directly at you either, everyone but a two or three people, have given the "HEY! THOSE FAKERS ARE GROSS!" statement.

but no one seems to step outside that and ask other questions as to maybe why this happens. other than, "those fakers are desperate for male attention."

its just a very hostile thread that is only pointing the finger a skin deep issue.

 

[finn]

Well, I think the hostility is justified. A moment between two females has now been put into a context where it promotes the idea that only male-female unions are valid- since females touching and kissing each other is done only to arouse a male audience. This is no better than saying that guys kissing each other or girls kissing each other is wrong, it's just repackaging the same prejudice in a more acceptable practice.

 

[JahDucky]

@JungleBoots

I get what you are saying with the whole, media and male persuation but....Why do so many women have to be so weak? Why do they feel its necessary to give in? I wouldnt want to be like any of those dumb drunken sluts on the Real World or Rock of Love/Flavor of Love. I wouldnt want to impress the douche bag dude bro and its sad that so many women dont have a good enough self image to do something better with and to themselves then throw themselves into this mindless scene.

If you want to start a thread pointing at all the issues behind this behavior go on ahead. Ill be there. This thread was posted with a specific subject. You could turn all these threads around and ask why we arent looking at every single factor but its only pin pointing one.

 

[JungleBoots]

Well, I think the hostility is justified. A moment between two females has now been put into a context where it promotes the idea that only male-female unions are valid- since females touching and kissing each other is done only to arouse a male audience. This is no better than saying that guys kissing each other or girls kissing each other is wrong, it's just repackaging the same prejudice in a more acceptable practice.

im all for the hostility, i just think the hostility is pointed in the wrong direction.

 

[trotsky]

=half the girls in my highschool.
It's called "being an attention whore."

 

[tallhorseman]

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[Broche]

Another side of this I've found is that women who are actually bi or lesbian can't kiss, or even show affection, in public without some sleazy guy making comments about it.

I can't count the number of times I've been out with lesbian friends who have kissed, or even just held hands, and guys have made disgusting comments to me, or even them in some cases.

Yeah, as some people have said, I've found that men finding this kind of stuff "sexy" is the main problem.

 

[Tempest]

I think it's pretty dumb... but on the other hand, you get so many guys going "OMG, girl on girl... SO HOTTT" that maybe they're as much to blame. Because that's also pretty dumb.

 

[BUMJUG]

they want to do it for attention let them fucking do it for attention, i dont know whats the point of this thread.

maybe its fer attention.... :]

 

[maemovesmadlyon]

no for sure switch. I understand where everyone is coming from in the thread too. but Its a shame that people think complaining about it is worth their time, there are bigger concerns for the LGBT community, such as helping those who are in the closet, and helping defend the community from discrimination.

I have to agree with you there. While I find the bisexual 'trend' rather annoying, I choose to just ignore it and focus on the issues within my community that are more important. I live in a very conservative, Catholic city that does very little in the way of LGBTQ rights. I've been volunteering with my local LGBTQ youth group, helping newcomers adjust to such open environments and offering peer counseling for those who are still mostly in the closet and need some advice on coming out/coping with the hardships of their sexuality, as well as just being a friend who, as an LGBT myself, can just give a little insight on their situations. I find those issues to be far more important and worth my time than picking out all the "fakes" and calling them out on their debauchery. Much more fulfilling, if anything.

 

[Rash L]

I blame girls gone wild and Mtv.

 

[JungleBoots]

ill be honest... ill bet the whipped cream industry has something to do with it all too... ever notice how in the girls gone wild commercials at least one clip is of some chicks eating whipped cream off the other....