stove
Well-known member
Okay, so maybe I'm a bit old fashioned...Maybe I've been using the net longer than nearly anyone on here (except perhaps IBRR)...But can it with the fucking friend requests!
"friends" are just that- people I would like to be associated with. That means that, on some level, I know them. Maybe we've spoken a bit on chat, we've hitched/hopped/squatted together, we slammed a 40 downtown, whatever.
It doesn't mean I said good morning to you once on chat. Or that you find me interesting. Do ya? Send me a message, or a profile comment, or something. To me, "friends" are people I want to be associated with. If I don't know you, I don't know that I want to be associated with you. Maybe I do, maybe I don't- we'll figure that out later, and it doesn't take much.
There are only a few folks whom I haven't actually met, and those people I've had longish multiple conversations with.
Oh, and if I can't remember why we're friends, I'll likely prune you from my list. Don't be offended...hell, if you are, tell me about it, and I'll probably re-add you on the merit that you've got enough balls to stand up for yourself (God knows enough fuckwits don't).
Yeah, I can be an asshole, but it sure weeds the dumbasses out of my life quickly.
"friends" are just that- people I would like to be associated with. That means that, on some level, I know them. Maybe we've spoken a bit on chat, we've hitched/hopped/squatted together, we slammed a 40 downtown, whatever.
It doesn't mean I said good morning to you once on chat. Or that you find me interesting. Do ya? Send me a message, or a profile comment, or something. To me, "friends" are people I want to be associated with. If I don't know you, I don't know that I want to be associated with you. Maybe I do, maybe I don't- we'll figure that out later, and it doesn't take much.
There are only a few folks whom I haven't actually met, and those people I've had longish multiple conversations with.
Oh, and if I can't remember why we're friends, I'll likely prune you from my list. Don't be offended...hell, if you are, tell me about it, and I'll probably re-add you on the merit that you've got enough balls to stand up for yourself (God knows enough fuckwits don't).
Yeah, I can be an asshole, but it sure weeds the dumbasses out of my life quickly.