Im happy with my love life (sex) though it has had its challenges. Been married for 5 years so far, and hopefully "forever".
Was never really into girls, until my early 20's. Had some long term gf's, fooled around on the road (with men too), tried the poly thing... Im a typical horny guy, but have always been kind of prudish, never had a one night stand. Sex for me has only been good once we get used our bodies. Sex is super emotional for me and I need to know somebody before jumping in. I think that's why my married sex has felt so much better than relationships in the past. Not too mention, my wife's super hot. (I'd post pics but we saw how that turned out haha.) My wife's perspective of course would be diferrent as she has a couple physical limitations with her body which can make sex tough but that's a different issue.
Had sex in a lake the other day, that was awesome and the first time I "did it" underwater.
We are 100% monogamous but spend ALOT of time with the opposite sex, so that's cool. She spends a lot of time with other men, either through her job, or dancing, I can dance and we do, I'm just not that great. I think we have NO jealousy in our marriage which is awesome. Both of us have a lot of personal independence and trust which makes our marriage way more exciting and fun. She's actually working at Burning Man right now, I'm on the road.
I never thought I'd be in a relationship like this, it's awesome and for that I'm grateful. We met in West Oakland, literally just walking down the street. She lived a block away. Of course we have our fights, we're both stubborn as fuck sometimes and it shows. On several occasions she has got a little crazy and hits me, but oddly enough it just turns me on.....
Anyways thanks for reading.