Inhibition
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I'm genderless. I believe gender is a social construct and tool of social control, used to dominate and oppress so I don't identify with it.
As an anti authoritarian, I'd be in favor of the abolition of gender, except people are so emotionally invested in their labels it creates a quandary.
From my perspective gender is a cage to be boxed into. Our society rewards those who stay within their gender cages and punishes those who leave their gender cages.
What it looks like to me as someone who hates cages, is some want to live in the cages marked for others because they seem more habitable. They look longingly at the other cages and think 'I would be accepted and appreciated in that cage but not the cage I am was put in!'
For me, I would probably be accepted more readily into a female gender cage if I was born with biologically female anatomy, based on some of my behavioral traits which are more tolerated in women: lack of dominance, emotional, timid, sensitive, non competitive, nurturing, etc.
But I don't look longingly at any existing cage or the idea of creating new cages I could be appreciated for fitting into. My angle is to eradicate cages themselves. The problem is, it becomes increasingly difficult to free people from their cages the more attached they become. When people gain esteem, happiness, and adulation by having a label and 'fitting into the cage' the harder they will cling to the constructs for the same reasons cis gender people do.
I have sympathy for those feel they must exist within a socially constructed label and fit within it. But my activism and philosophical standpoint is that cages, even the ones with fluffy pillows and heaps of approval from society, are still bad. Rewarding people or punishing people based on how they fit into the cages is the crux of the problem.
I don't think creating more cages so everyone has an equally celebrated cage is a viable solution to inequality. I think in the long term it's more viable to attack the idea of gender as a cage itself, and push for the idea that people of any anatomical structure, appearance, and brain structure, should have precisely the same freedoms and same rewards/punishments. That there should be no reward for being in a cage at all.
We're not there yet, but I will continue to advocate for this scenario.
As an anti authoritarian, I'd be in favor of the abolition of gender, except people are so emotionally invested in their labels it creates a quandary.
From my perspective gender is a cage to be boxed into. Our society rewards those who stay within their gender cages and punishes those who leave their gender cages.
What it looks like to me as someone who hates cages, is some want to live in the cages marked for others because they seem more habitable. They look longingly at the other cages and think 'I would be accepted and appreciated in that cage but not the cage I am was put in!'
For me, I would probably be accepted more readily into a female gender cage if I was born with biologically female anatomy, based on some of my behavioral traits which are more tolerated in women: lack of dominance, emotional, timid, sensitive, non competitive, nurturing, etc.
But I don't look longingly at any existing cage or the idea of creating new cages I could be appreciated for fitting into. My angle is to eradicate cages themselves. The problem is, it becomes increasingly difficult to free people from their cages the more attached they become. When people gain esteem, happiness, and adulation by having a label and 'fitting into the cage' the harder they will cling to the constructs for the same reasons cis gender people do.
I have sympathy for those feel they must exist within a socially constructed label and fit within it. But my activism and philosophical standpoint is that cages, even the ones with fluffy pillows and heaps of approval from society, are still bad. Rewarding people or punishing people based on how they fit into the cages is the crux of the problem.
I don't think creating more cages so everyone has an equally celebrated cage is a viable solution to inequality. I think in the long term it's more viable to attack the idea of gender as a cage itself, and push for the idea that people of any anatomical structure, appearance, and brain structure, should have precisely the same freedoms and same rewards/punishments. That there should be no reward for being in a cage at all.
We're not there yet, but I will continue to advocate for this scenario.
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