i agree with phenoix. a man has no say in whether or not a woman chooses to have an abortion, or the child. if she did not bother to talk to you about her decision, how can she ask that you pay for half of it? and who knows if she actually had the abortion? she could be shakin' ya down for money. i had a gal try to sue me for child support, saying the child was mine. i wouldn't agree till i did a dna test, turns out it wasn't mine at all. funny thing is, i always wanted a kid (still do) but no way was i gonna have anything to do with them after all the lies!
how come it is always the guy's fault that a gal gets pregnant? you girls know the risk too, but it always seems easier to blame the guy! sereously people no condom, no sex.