This is the way I see it. Speaking for myself, I can barely function under capitalism. I think about suicide all the time, my life is a constant existential crisis, I cannot just simply live, everything is a big issue: when I am off work I am like a paralyzed deer in headlights and just procrastinate or have an anxiety attack -- when I am at work, I am like a zombie. If I hold a job for too long, I start getting caged animal syndrome and feel especially suicidal and morose till I hit a crisis and quit the job. I finally made enough money to support myself in my own apartment at age 32(I am talking without a room-mate here). I can barely bring myself to wash clothes, shower more than once a week, I don't care to meet other people(literally: if I don't write down people's names whom I meet, I will forget their names again and agan), I am severely underweight due to unhappiness preventing me from working out consisently or eating enough, etc.
Literally I cannot function in this society. Personally I don't call myself an anarchist, because I think it is an immature utopian movement. But say someone else did say they were an anarchist, but they could jump through the hoops required of them, and do all the right things according to the dominate narrative. They went to college, they got a high paying professional job, they convinced themself that they feel in love, then they bought a house, and finally they raised a kid. Isn't such person just a poser? They are pretending they are against capitalism and the state, but they are actually living and functioning just fine under capitalism and the state. I mean I cannot function properly under capitalism and even take care of myself. If someone can function under capitalism so fine that they can support another person in the conventional manner, how are they actually against capitalism? What people self report is very faulty. Probably they are functioning just fine if they made such a choice.
That is the part of the reason why I think anarchism is a waste of time, anarchists are just interested in being anarchists, same as punks just want to be punks or black metal scenesters are black metal scenesters. Also it is beyond funny that they didn't allow that group to table some lame anarchist bookfair.