I see that quite sometime has past since the original post was made so I am sincerely curious as to how she made out.
My advice (had I been on sooner) would have been to go the Planned Parenthood route as the risks of giving birth (if the herbs thing goes horribly wrong) to a deformed child is too great, not too mention that it's unfair to both the child and the parent since neither wanted this to be the case.
Is there a chance you were able to find some sympathetic ears who could help you out financially??
I remember back around maybe 1989, 1990 - I found this very cute - very young - girl hitching while I just happened to be taking out my 1970 Duster 340 for a romp around town, so of course I picked her up.
At first she said that she needed a ride to Bridgeport to pick up a car or something, then she confessed that she was going to get an abortion. I immediately offered her any support I could, turns out she was all set (whatever that meant) but I insisted on driving her right to the front door and was going to make sure the protesters did not mess with her. She was more concered about them coming after me, to which I replied I'll just run them over. I don't know what ever happened to this nice girl, poor thing even offered me 'anything I wanted' as far as having a good time with her, but there was no way I could have taken advantage as that since I was compelled to be her 'big brother' so to speak.
I pray that the woman here who started this thread made out ok and is safe and sound.....