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    So does anyone have any jokes??

    and then what??? detalles detalles!!
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    The Pronouns Thread

    i just want to point out that (I believe) this is something that tons of people (possibly everyone) unfortunately experience regardless of their being trans, queer, cisgendered or otherwise. At least I can say for myself it's a burden in my life and has been a huge painful burden for a long time
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    The Pronouns Thread

    i like the analogy of a name and Richard/Rick/Dick for example and being considerate enough to call Rick his preferred name... or I will add, for instance, if Margaret identifies more as Molly, or Maggie it actually suits me - my name is Stuart, I used to go by Stu and some people I used to...
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    Cornelius Vango (Kelsey Abeler) should be avoided at all costs

    so is the idea that "they" does not encompass both "he" and "she"?
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    Peru and Chile starting this November

    well, sweet man - you got a lotta options there for sure, you can DM me if you want Lima crowded, I wouldn't disagree with. I definitely advise you to stay far away if you don't like cities
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    Schwillam/Sirius/Dru/Sean/Audio/What the fuck Ever.

    that's some interesting shit @VariedValue i respect yr take that said i have someone similar in my immediate family and gosh i just dunno.... it's like a fantasy that they'll get better.... i mean, no offense i love that you were defended from being queerbashed, but this is also the thing...
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    It just wasn't gonna get any better

    well Brad to be fair...the way you roll the end of your toothpaste tube IS very tacky.
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    Cornelius Vango (Kelsey Abeler) should be avoided at all costs

    Nice call I don't know either of yall "IRL" but apparently im enough of a dingdong to stick my nose in the business here so here i go a lot of fall-out argument/bridge burni stuff I'VE been through is like you say "bullcrap" or absurd as id say - shit happens, flush it, and rise to the future...
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    Peru and Chile starting this November

    there's definitely a lot of different sorts of places there to know you got any idea of what kind of place you'd like to go to....?
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    A stray creature is wandering around Europe and beyond

    welcome to the forum black lizard planet eh? what else?
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    New Girl & stuff about me

    welcome to the forum, good luck expanding yr horizons!
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    What are you listening to right now?!!!

    one of these other most beautiful songs that always has more meaning revisiting after years of not listening....
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    Hey yall im bones, michigan area!!

    word that's awesome, i do recall that, just knowing the 3 sisters, but i like the whole assimilation/metaphor for personalities thing goin there what makes you a bean as opposed to a squash or corn then?
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    Hey yall im bones, michigan area!!

    interesting, please elaborate
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    Hey yall im bones, michigan area!!

    the hell's a bean punk? also hell yeah definitely tell about yr times outside the country
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    Feeling trapped by Society.

    welcome to the forum, keep on keepin on!
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    Event The Global Eclipse Patagonia Gathering 2020

    thanks, I felt a bit out of pocket, being a douche but it does actually make me suspicious of the integrity of the people running the event…like….."Let's just pull a bunch of people with trendy-buzzwords"…then again I guess one just calls that 'business' ?
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    Photos I pulled the trigger....

    aww man that's awesome, I lived in one of the same model, once briefly, it was sooo cozy
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    a late introduction from a lurker

    awesome bro nice intro congrats on the habit reduction. im workin on it (again) 3 weeks no tobacco, 5 or so weeks no alcohol. still abuse caffeine though. you prolly wont be passin thru Maryland but I'll prolly be here for a couple months at least. hmu
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    Imposter Syndrome and Some Other Complicated Things

    sounds like guilt you were in an environment that influenced you a certain way and you were younger, less developed and thought a certain way. you brought yourself out of it and now you think differently, i wouldn't limit yourself based on your past errors. that you aren't "deserving" of...
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    Experiences with smoking ganja in public ?

    if you are FEELING paranoid you will not enjoy it
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    Event The Global Eclipse Patagonia Gathering 2020

    i may have made the comment with my head partway up my ass - me personally, i'd prolly fly "somewhere" on the continent (Lima, Quito and Bogota typically have the cheapest tickets for North Americans that I myself have witnessed....Montevideo is ironically not one to shake a stick at either! )...
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    Event The Global Eclipse Patagonia Gathering 2020

    interesting…. im a little suspicious of anything that offers " travel and accommodation " as well the location is a lot further north than I expected due to the presentation/title but I was not far from that at a time (El Bolson) and it was very beautiful….. it just gets even better the...
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    Video The documentary about brazilian misfit travelers made by brazilian misfit travelers.

    similar content, surely some of the same people involved lovely interviews
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    Trying Something Different

    i dont think 'consent' is the best descriptor for that, maybe more a fetish for someone being explicative? anyway you didnt ask and i could be splitting hairs, but 'consent' has a bit of a sensitive denotation imho
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    Trying Something Different

    OK, now I've heard everything !
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    is anyone on here happy with their love life??

    unless you're 18-20 ::meh:: then you're obviously a criminal monster who deserves to be put behind bars (in the USA anyway)
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    Never leave your pack alone, not even for a minute!

    im pretty blown away this could happen in a major int'l airport in Europe, just shows my naivety
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    is anyone on here happy with their love life??

    so since 21 - 4 = 17.......
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    Never leave your pack alone, not even for a minute!

    hard lesson learned! glad it wasnt worse
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    is anyone on here happy with their love life??

    so...i had sex today and it was great..
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    Uluru

    Yeah, that's cool there is an actual ban happening. I mean, I'm hardly the biggest "environmentalist" but most of yall need to leave the fuckin giant rock be, people. this girl from Perth told me before whitie came, there were...i dunno 1000 nations on what is now called Australia.. and they...
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    Jersey shore heading to west coast.

    @Moonbaby is i think doin the same route rn
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    What are you listening to right now?!!!

    lmao, bro this shit is wild
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    My propensity for impulse

    cool! sounds like ya know what yr doin whats yr favorite music? favorite songs to play? favorite cities?
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    South Bound I-5 through Redding *WARNING*

    so...everywhere?
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    Portland to California travel advice ?

    click the magnifying glass in the topright corner and search the many threads on freight hopping..... as for pdx to california...yeah there's a lot to see, enjoy
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    I want out

    also, take it one piece at a time, lest the anxiety make you cave. you can avoid that, for sure
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    Video The documentary about brazilian misfit travelers made by brazilian misfit travelers.

    Finally got around to watchin this in full, with complete navigation using Portuguese subtitles (which were pretty fuckin impressive, catching synonyms of slang, etc.) @Older Than Dirt @fabio If anyone reading this has the slightest interest, I strongly recommend hittin it with the English...
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    I want out

    i´m cringing at the possibility of derailing this thread here but maybe if i take my time this will make sense. this society, the taxation and expectation and clampdown on freethinking, has such a strong grip on our species and on this world, that i am inclined to believe that it is *this...
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    I want out

    if that person exists you sure won't find them here, or online at all, in my opinion - not being flippant here, i encourage you to take the neccesary steps, research only what is needed, say fuck everybody else and do what you want. My point is that the answers are inside you.
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    São Tomé & Príncipe

    Yes, @Older Than Dirt it is being a lusofono nation and an island that originally attracted me, but it even sounds like as close as one may get to a true paradise based on what is written in the link I posted... if somehow financial problems can be avoided, one way or another. But more complex...
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    São Tomé & Príncipe

    Bom dia Anyone been to or read about this....increbibly-lovely seeming country? I hope one day to pass through Angola, or elsewhere a flight can be caught to these islands. I heard about it originally from a guy in Brasil while we were drinking in front of the grocery store and swappin...
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    Hello STP! I'm Madison and I'm on my way to Thailand.

    nice, sounds cool. experiencing extremely different people and places is a huge boost.... wishing you very well in Thailand
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    How and when to discuss polyamory with potential partners

    You illustrated perfectly a couple huge points why I think this is such an important topic... One it´s sad, to say the least, a lot of people who can´t ¨realize¨ polymory out of some, fear or lack of good influence, or whatever, and try to force monogamy. And what happens? people die over...
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    How and when to discuss polyamory with potential partners

    fuckin right my man that's just the cold truth and in a way it's even more evidence..well this is how i see it... it requires a lot of strength, some high fkin consciousness to pull off.. it aint something for most.. let alone common or deathly inexperienced folks.. i might be just droolin now...
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    How and when to discuss polyamory with potential partners

    my first love at 18 wanted this Polyamory and i left her over it, notable that she brought it up a little too late and as others have pointed out, better to be 100% about it before it starts really taking off, let alone lovemaking...this fucked me up for years and I kinda thought Hm...what if...
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    The downside of being a homesteader.

    hahahahaha my guy have you considered writing a book? this is some prime content