I thought you were hitting the road with your ladyfriend, what happened to that? Anyway, yeah ^ this cat has it right but definitely NOT if you've never done it before because one of your drunk ass friends is probably going to pass out and end up feeding his arm to his dog or some shit. I do agree with him that flaky people are all over the place, you have to sift sift sift because, and this is the simplest truth, the kicker: people are scared (scared of the unknown, being unsheltered, having no money, food, being outside, shunned, the list goes forever). So, the advice I have for you is to be honest, dependable yourself and true to your boundaries, eventually you'll find a companion that is your counterpart; granted, this is a process, don't expect instant gratification as it does take a while to really get to know someone. Unless your with that person 24/7 for months, then you tend to know each other inside and away.
Shit, duh!!
Hook up with Wrkrsunite, his homies flake on him on the regular. Dude, this is destiny!!