- Aug 8, 2012
show em' how it's done ... Show love and it will attract 'them' like flies to shit. Plus, if you have love to offer it's not healthy to keep it bottled up. Let it oooze
Story of my life. Cept switch straight girls with straight guys. Lately I've been so disinterested in relationships because the guys I do end up hooking up with are usually fucked up and just lookin to get off. Which is frustrating. I think its hard for gays in the scene (hate that word), not because they're not welcoming, but because they're so indifferent as to who they get their jollies from. It ends up hurting the gay who thought there could be potential for more.I've always had to settle with girls that aren't even bi/gay and i get my heart broken everytime.
Sometimes I feel like there aren't many women within the anarcho/"punk" scene who are gay. Having recently come out completely, I feel kind of alone in this. The girls I do meet do the whole "I'm drunk let's hook up" song and dance and I fucking hate it. I just went through something like this, because even when sober, she said she wanted to be with me. I personally don't drink, but I'm just sick of feeling so weird within the scene. It leads to me settling for girls I don't have much in common with, just 'cuz they're cute and fun to be around. I don't wanna compromise my ideals anymore. I guess I'm just looking to see who else feels like this and how they deal with it.