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suprhromnn

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I'm sorry but nowhere in the definition of fetish does it say it happens everytime. It says habitual or with fixation and as you can see in the definitions of those two words, they do not mean that you always have something. Many people have many fixations but they also have other things in their lives.

There's no point in arguing semantics however, over a false definition. The entire definition of "fetish" is complete garbage. I have no idea where you even came up with that, but it certainly wasn't a dictionary. Lets take a look and see what the dictionary does have to say about a fetish:

fet·ish/ˈfetiSH/


Noun:
  1. An inanimate object worshiped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit.
  2. A course of action to which one has an excessive and irrational commitment


An excessive or irrational commitment is most likely what we are discussing in regards to sexual fetishes. Lets look up excessive and irrational and see what they tell us about this:
ex·ces·sive/ikˈsesiv/



Adjective:
More than is necessary, normal, or desirable; immoderate

ir·ra·tion·al/iˈraSHənl/


Adjective:
Not logical or reasonable.
I'm honestly having a really hard time seeing where it tells me that to have a sexual fetish (which would be a "course of action to which" I have this "excessive and irrational commitment" resulting in sexual gratification) I have to partake in this fetish every time I have sex or I will not reach my desired gratification.

I may have fetishes that I do partake in more often than not, but somedays I could be simply just in the mood for straight up sex and I still get very much the same level of gratification from it.
 

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then by definition, it's NOT A FETISH. but whatever. im not going to sit here and slap you in the face with the definition all day. im also not an idiot. i don't need you to break down the definitions of other words for me. thanks.
 

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then by definition, it's NOT A FETISH. but whatever. im not going to sit here and slap you in the face with the definition all day. im also not an idiot. i don't need you to break down the definitions of other words for me. thanks.
Every post you have made in this thread argues otherwise. Not a single place in the definition of fetish is it stated that it must be partaken in with every sexual encounter for it to be a fetish.
 

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I had absolutely no intention of being nasty with you. I am simply arguing the semantics of this definition, I apologize if you feel I was nasty towards you. I am one of those people who has an exceedingly nice, careful and giving demeanor but I also lack the ability to bite my young tongue and words fly out rather sharply sometimes.

My good friend once said that I do not have a filter between my brain and my mouth, the first words are coming out before the thought is half finished.
 

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I have to disagree with you mouse, that is not the definition of fettish.
 
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LOL I have an extreme oral fetish/fixation. I believe this passes the *true* fetish test cuz if I can't suck it..then I don't wanna fuck it! ;)
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I've run into ladies before that had to warm themselves up to the real sex by performing pre-sex sex. I think that is a great form of
foreplay. Kissing is way overrated. I have a "dirty talk" fetish. Maybe it really isn't a fetish, but even my ears get wood when they
hear nasty stuff.
 

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ahem. Ms. Winter's fanclub just grew by about 3000%.
I've run into ladies before that had to warm themselves up to the real sex by performing pre-sex sex. I think that is a great form of
foreplay. Kissing is way overrated. I have a "dirty talk" fetish. Maybe it really isn't a fetish, but even my ears get wood when they
hear nasty stuff.
LOL yeah yeah yeah...well let's just say my bf certainly doesn't mind :p

Oh I like kissing too...but it depends on my mood. If my bf and I are making love then its more about passionate kissing, caressing etc. But if we're just fucking then it always includes a bj, 69 etc. It's the whole act of oral sex that I love. The guys reaction etc.
 

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