If your asking where a place like this is I would have to say the answer is Denver/Boulder.
The only downside to the Denver area is (if your a racist) Lots of Mexicans. shitty public transpo, Hot as balls in the summer and cold as fuck in the winter, not much in the way of fulfilling jobs - But If you got money you can rent a 3 bedroom house for around 1000 USD a month, Cigarettes are under 5$ a pack, full strength liquor and beer for sale almost 24/7 Not sure of the social scenes But I remember having a decent amount of fun in the later part of my youth and early teens there - though one prevalent social scene is the juggalos you can avoid them if you want.
As for boulder I only went there once and It struck me as a hipster trust fund college town, but I have heard it draws alot of rainbows and other hippie burnouts. I'm sure someone else will have more favorable views on it than I as I had only spent about 48 hours there, knew nobody and spent most of my time dumpster diving and drinking.