Dude congrats!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!! I've always wanted a son. Lol. Now, just thinknpositive. Ive had friends who had given birth nhad preety bad tears, but ive also had friends, who have had tear free births. Im sure you've heard of that movie "orgasmic birth?" Birth is an amazing powerful process, n my friends with kids, tell me, how amazing and powerful those surges of energy, contractions, are. Do you know where you're going to have him?? In a hospital, in a la quinta, in the woods?? Its crazy but once had this teacher who was all like "some women feel most comfortable, going ( running, lol) into the woods for a few days and doing it all alone. There is some risk, but, you know, its what you feel. Dont be afraid is all im saying!!!!
Also, have you heard of the concept of being a sovereign citizen? It has to do with not getting a ssn n a us birth certificate, n it can give ur child.more freedoms and also more limitations ( no food stamps, for example) it could be a huge gift u could give ur child. Anyone have better info on the pros n cons of sovereign citizenship???