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Can you add onto your post where you are now and where you're trying to go? What's it saying when you try to post? @Matt Derrick is there some kind of posting minimum?

There is no bridge between monogamy and polyamory. The only thing that's going to do is perpetuate unhealthy dynamics. If you're monogamous, you're going to resent your partner, or feel insecure, sharing them. That's why someone identifies as monogamous, they desire that they have one partner...

How far are you into your field of study -- and college debt? If you already have completed around 4 semesters or have over $20k debt I highly advise staying and sticking it through, no matter how bad the wanderlust is as long as you're not going to have an emotional breakdown doing so. The...

Glad to see you joined. :)

guess I'm not quitting afterall

Anyone who knows me knows I'm a shameless fan of the band Medicine for the People.. not a fan of most of their other fans and ambivalent on the artists themselves, but the music has wedged its way into my life and helped me through a lot of shit over the past 8 years. Anyway.. this song has...

I second the no underwear thing if you're gonna be stuck in panties more than a day. Your vag will breathe better and it wont be a sticky humid mess with polyester shoved against it. Wipes are great too, I grab the baby wipe refill packages.

yo Troll if you see this I have your tobacco pouch, it was down the side of the chair in my car

Stay downstate, we're getting lake effect snow north past binghamtom. If you don't want to sleep in the city there are affordableish buses to nearby suburb NJ where you can sleep more safely.

Getting a dog when you're new to the road is a terrible idea, imo. You'll quickly realize you can't go in anywhere with the dog, or that its hard potty training a dog on the road, and its gonna be harder to find people willing to let you crash. Not to mention you're on bike, you have the funds...

Was it you that I gave that piercing needle and told you to sew your boot? ahahaha

Not me, but I love kicking around social theories on power dynamics! HMU sometime here or shoot me your number. No shit?? Were you one of the two we drank with or did I just meet ya in passing? I always hoped to reconnect with y'all, RT was amazing. Actually have it on my list of "places to...

You can also get horse ivermectin for $3 at tractor supply, it's an ingestible that kills mites/ticks/fleas/lice/etc. Safe for humans and super cheap!

So I never actually posted an intro here to my knowledge, though now I've been here a while. I apologize if this is verbose, I've had a really rough day/week and am kinda loopy on my pain meds right now, tramadol turns me into a sappy puddle of feels. Hillbilly Castro / Andy told me a long time...

I can't join ya, but I'm definitely interested in how your story turns out with this journey and can call you out if it seems like you're diverging... having fam to keep you going on your chosen course definitely helps keep the passion going. I look forward to seeing your progress in the coming...

I use a golite and @Hillbilly Castro travelled with one and loved it. Somewhere between a day pack and a fullsize backpacking pack.

going any specific direction?

There's one of these on SUNY campus in syracuse too, not that any of the attachments work for my folding bike.

Kudos to @Matt Derrick, @zim, and @Zaphod for being the only contributors to the original topic that have shown that they've deconstructed rape culture enough to not: -defend rape culture while thinking they're promoting an anti-rape standpoint -ridicule anti-assault movements -redirect the...

People who commit sexual assault might not care what you are wearing, but they will 100% use it to defend and excuse their actions. Not addressing this, the fact that men use women's apparel to justify rape **even though it did not cause the rape**, is plain stupid. What's stupider is saying...

While these look pretty cool, I'm definitely still seeing tipis as the cheapest tiny house alternative. You can make your own with tarps or but a portable, canvas set the size of a yurt for under $1k

Keep me in mind for later on if this continues developing, I'm a research conservation biologist focusing right now on integrating wilderness and human resource use sustainably. Always wanted to help build a community so that they're low impact.

But MeN arE raPEd tOO So WHy aRe wE TAlkinG abOuT woMEn

I'm gonna need to finish at least triple the amount of wine I've currently consumed to aquire your ability to read creature ::drinkingbuddy::

*reads creatures reply* ... *reads again* *scratches head, sips some tea, thinks* *reads a third time* I'm still not sure completely what you said. The only thing that made sense to me was your part on not assuming the worst of each other, regardless of how things are worded. Some questions...

Can you message her on your tinder conversation? Maybe figure out where her house was that you went to and send a letter. I'd be very conscious of wording when contacting her.

@Coywolf, you have definitely contributed with your replies to making this a "crap" thread through off-topic replies that aren't constructive to the conversation. Most of your commentary has been directed at Zaphod personally and not the topic and could have been sent through PM. I think Zaphod...

If he's never done anything similar and is willing to give up drinking, I would personally give him a second chance. In this case it seems removing the drinking would remove the danger he could present, and now this is going to be common knowledge to folk in this online circle where he can be...

I believe OP is 100% against rape. I think he said some stupid contradictory things to his message, so I'm just going to address those. I've noticed through my own experiences that education on what is sexual assault and what counts as consent is sadly lacking. As people become more verbal in...

If someone is trying to sexually assault someone while they're unconscious, they're a predator, intoxicated or not. "Touchy feely" is way too polite a phrase for touching, undressing, and inserting fingers into the mouth of an unconscious person. He gets assaultive when drunk, by what's...

There's a farmhouse at the front of the property I can get stuff mailed to if you still have it! If you do let me know, I'll mail back a thank you gift. :)

Gonna be staying in a 12ft travel trailer for winter in rural new york using an electric heater. Person I'm working for in exchange for the space told me to run it continuously... I don't feel comfortable doing that. My cat will be there while I'm gone so it does need to be warm enough for her...

I use racetems but they're pretty hard/pricey to get a hold of.. similar effect to taking low dose Adderall plus some creativity and memory retention boosts.

*Post a portrait of your lovely face, if I feel led to you'll end up with a drawing of it.

New work in progress tats: Last photo is me with ear tats done by the lovely lad I'm doing the ladybug for. The circle just below this text is going to be a sun, with a moon on the other side to balance.

Anarchy is an umbrella term for a range of people... But most of the ones I know are far leftists or socialists, with some individualists thrown in. Check out the anarchist library if you want a lot of texts to look at, authors' opinions are all over different spectrums as far as politics...

thiiiiiiiiiiiiiis vegan capitalism is still shit. I was vegetarian for over 11 years, most of the time eating vegan. I work at a vegan cafe. Vegan capitalism is still exploitative. Last week I stopped being a vegetarian because I had the realization that if I'm trying to choose the most...

I have kayaks we could take and I'm 100% down to check it out after the second week of May

Queer here!

Etyph: My best friend's boyfriend raped me in high school, we had been watching cartoons up until late night and fallen asleep on her bed. I woke up with his fingers in my vaginal canal, I was confused and not sure what was going on. My body was traitorous and enjoying the feeling, and despite...

Thanks yo! I might be out west in August maybe I'll catch ya and tat you up! Nice username! I wish I could apprentice at a shop! No one wants to teach a hobbyist self-taught artist.

Haha, dude totally. I was only sober doing some of these and freehanded most of them. It's very liberating doing that with something permanent. I'm thinking of purchasing a machine because handpoke is so slow, but it gives you such a connection to the art and the person/canvas.

Here's my latest stuff! An alien, a mushroom (waiting on the red and white ink to come in), and on my own arm, San's mask from Princess Mononoke (about 15% done - will be fully shaded with foliage surrounding it.)

@HillBilly

@Hillbilly Castro dropped by after jambo, I'm tatting him up! Here's like 50% of the linework for a pistol.

Linework finished, shading starts tomorrow!

Started a second tat, same foot. Currently planning on what I want to start doing with my left arm and one area on my leg, as well as the top of both feet. Man, I've never been bothered by being so tiny before, I don't have enough skin and a good portion of it I've already mentally dedicated...

Here's an update on today's progress:

Thank's y'all!

I would ask around local garage sale / craigslist facebook groups, a lot of people tattoo as a hobby out of their home. It's likely not to be on par with a shop artist doing it 24/7, but you can ask them about their normal sterile practices and see their portfolio beforehand. Still cost money...