i've known a couple of places like this..
you do something that someone on staff doesn't like that has never bothered *anyone* before, & they fucking trump it up into a fucking criminal offense..
slapped a fucking bar, once.. big ass, huge, wooden, 20' long fucking hard wood fucking wooden bar, with my open hand, & the dick on duty told the owner i was "hitting the bar & shit" (one *singl*e fucking slap, when this same dick accused me of *heckling* him during his comedy routine.. i *thought* i was just giving him feedback..especially since i *knew* him, & people around me were laughing, too.. nothing serious.. i think i said "oh no!!" & "my mom, too!!"..
i dunno..
he really wasn't funny, and people weren't laughing.. i *thought* we were friends, since he used to beer me up for free, now & then..
& that's cool, if i pissed him off & he was pissed..
but to pull power trips outside the facts, or to say shit so bad that i can't respond?
basic problem with the species..
look at mikey-poo & his above interrogation..
people need to get fucking lives...
"hey, asshole!! you offended me!!"
"sorry, buddy!! what can i do to make it up??"
"that's ok, asshole, sorry is enough"
& then there is a question...
"think we can still be friends?"
& the answer should be "yes", so long as each asshole tries to learn...
the problem with people who get to thinking they are too important, though, is that they think they have rights beyond what they first said they believe..
& that's the same shit as fascism, dictoritality, corporate centralism, or any other shit where people think they have more say because they think they are more fucking important..
& you know?
coming out of bars & bouncers?
there is a degree to which they have to exercise discretion, but i know the testosterone bullshit, and anyone who denies it is denying a basic element of human existence (HEY ASSHOLE!! YOU FIGHT WARS TO GET POON!!!! DON'T YOU FUCKING KNOW THAT!!!), & then justify it by interrogative reasoning to give it some color of intelligence, because their brain works well enough to twist shit into a shape where they believe they now have the right to forcibly control others...
fucking *nazis* did that, you know..?
anyways..
hope yer credit card is at least truly lost at worst, & truly safe, back with you, at best..
hope the bouncers hitting on yer GF get fucking cancer & their balls & dicks & can't piss or jerk off, much less anything else..
hell shit.. that it hits them so bad they go into agony if they get fucking erections..
let's see them hit up on a sis after *that*...
fucking assholes..
i've lost my wallet, with $$ & everything else in it many, many time...
i can't believe it, but it always comes home intact..
i hope your shit's ok..
J