Used to be with someone who always commented that no travelers ever even spoke about coming through Connecticut, and now that I think about it she's probably right, but I can't say anything one way or the other...
I happen to really like Ct but then again, I am also somewhat established too.
Unfortunately once she left for greener pastures, I lost access to any possible lodging so I can't help you out.
I would not expect too much in the way of doors opening for you out here, nor money.
Good luck in your travels, I hear parts of Mass are super traveler friendly, if I can remember any names I will post em later.
But you could try hooking up with the D.i.y. Bandits, they are good friends of mine here in Ct if you are hell bent on passing through....