MetalBryan
Well-known member
I made the title in the hope it would be respected and not criticized but this is an awkward subject for me so all input is embraced.
Right now, and for the past 8 months, I have been housed and working at a non-profit helping folks get free bicycles. On several occasions, folks come in and at some point in the conversation, they name drop what I assume is their homeless handle. Most describe it as a tool for me to use to learn their good standing. Specifically, they have wanted to use it in place of our standard accountability letter and in one instance, the name drop was a veiled threat.
If you do this, why do you do this? I don't know you, so how can I respect this name? That's really it.... I just want to figure out a way to respect folks who think this is important. I am well within my rights to tell these folks to fuck off, but I don't want to take away what little agency they have. I assume a lot of this is part of the con to get free shit, but is there a way to sift through the BS?
I am trying to help folks down on their luck, but it's a judgement call on my part to separate the folks trying to make their lives better vs the folks that want to pawn a bike for $20. Thank you.
Right now, and for the past 8 months, I have been housed and working at a non-profit helping folks get free bicycles. On several occasions, folks come in and at some point in the conversation, they name drop what I assume is their homeless handle. Most describe it as a tool for me to use to learn their good standing. Specifically, they have wanted to use it in place of our standard accountability letter and in one instance, the name drop was a veiled threat.
If you do this, why do you do this? I don't know you, so how can I respect this name? That's really it.... I just want to figure out a way to respect folks who think this is important. I am well within my rights to tell these folks to fuck off, but I don't want to take away what little agency they have. I assume a lot of this is part of the con to get free shit, but is there a way to sift through the BS?
I am trying to help folks down on their luck, but it's a judgement call on my part to separate the folks trying to make their lives better vs the folks that want to pawn a bike for $20. Thank you.