Here is the official report back on all the sites Dameon and I checked out:
- Salmon La Sac:
Pretty crowded area but we COULD probably make it work if needed. It's the furthest from Seattle. No cell bars (verizon). A few pull offs along the road, only a couple with any privacy at all, but no water access in any of the spots we looked at.
- Kachess:
There are a number of spots where Jerrell mentioned. Spots are off a gravel road with some potholes but nothing too crazy, and the good spots are located along dirt roads with some roots and whatnot, but seems driveable even for smaller cars if you're careful. Lots of space to park off the road, plenty of shade, but most of the spots we looked at can be partially seen from the road.
Further up is only fancy houses and private property, and there are some campers set near the lower part of the road. One very large spot with a short walk over a rocky "wall" to the lake where Jarrell's tent is set up. Water looks fine to swim in, but would not rely on drinking it without a good filtering system.
I had 2 bars on my cell but did not test it.
Lots of fresh horse poop in all of the sites we checked including the lake spot, seems like a place people trail ride often. So folks with dogs would reallllly want to keep an eye on them. I know how horses/horse people can be. This might be my 2nd choice.
-Tinkham Road:
Very close to seattle. Road is gravel with a good number of potholes, but we drove in a mini cooper and made it just fine. We actually found quite a few really beautiful, private, shaded spots that would fit enough cars and people along the river. Several spots had different "areas", so if folks wanted they could still have a lot of privacy while still camping with the group. A lot of the spots have been left messy, and could use some cleanup.
The river isn't deep enough for swimming/floating, but is shallow enough in most places for wading and would safe for dogs and drunk people to play in. The water is very clear and cold, I would feel comfy drinking it with light filtration or even by itself.
Had 2 bars on cell. Untested.
There were a good number of people, but seemed like the type of people who will mind their own business. And still plenty of large, private, open spots that are not visible at all from the road.
Personally, this might be my first choice due to the shorter drive and my preference for running water.
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So yeah, we definitely have plenty of options that will work out just fine. It was prettty smokey everywhere we went, hopefully it'll clear up a bit by tomorrow. Fires are banned at each place we checked. Everyone should remember to bring lotttts of water and some trash bags if they can.