I won't have enough solar to power two cooling arrays by the summer (and I haven't bought the second trailer/5thWheel/RV yet), but if what you want is solitude, my eventual plan is hosting people in little guest-trailers, each with a little yard around it for people to do or make whatever, and in the center (the trailers will be around the edges of property so you won't be right next to me or other guests) I want to do an art installation Temple for people to gather when and how they choose to.
Downside is that water is hauled, so no long showers (I use a 5 Gallon solar shower), and food is mostly vegetarian survival freeze dry stuff, along with some rice, etc. By next Spring I should be ready for the goats and chickens.
It's also difficult to access, requiring a truck or other high-clearance vehicle, and it will get beat up.
Anyway, whatever happens I hope you find a good place. I don't like being around fighting either. I grew up around too much of it. I think one's home should be like the internet, you can turn it off and close your door, and not have to be in close proximity to people if you don't want to.