denverwi
Active member
I'm leaving friday for my first long term trip (WI to NOLA) and have yet to tell my roommate/bestfriend or my mother that i'm leaving. im awful with goodbyes, what do i say?
No my roommate is the only one on the lease and has been the only one paying rent, if anything this should make things easier for himYour momma might try to talk you out of it. Your roommate isn't going to like, default on a lease or miss rent or something, right? that would be kinda shitty .
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You're the first person to seem to get where I'm coming from here. I've run away from my ma a lot growing up but I ran away with my roommate and I think if I left now and tried saying goodbye he would cry and beg me to stay or take him with, but he has two jobs (one he loves) and friends and a fucked up kind of family i just dont want to tear him away from. I feel horrible for leaving these people but i feel this urgent need to run away from anywhere that becomes home.I'm a grown man and I hate goodbyes, I've left many times without saying a word. For me, saying goodbye is so final and I absolutely hate it. I hate the sadness it brings more than anything. It is something I'd rather not deal with.
For others, it is different. It is a way to tell people you care about that you will not be present for awhile. People are going to miss you.
If I were to leave today, I'd be sure to let everybody know.
Maybe make dinner on Thursday and let everybody know that you would like a ride to the offramp?
You probably not considered a roommate if you lived there for free while someone else paid rent. . .
very complicated situation. We referred to eachother as roommates even when we were homeless. There were times I paid the rent alone too, but we're roommates.You probably not considered a roommate if you lived there for free while someone else paid rent. . .