fuck "selfish." i do tons for others but i refuse to hold their hands like babies. i'm just self-aware and know what I enjoy and other can fuck themselves if they wanna get in my way.
sometimes it's more helpful if you tell someone they're stupid and suck at life rather than trying to help them. that whole give/teach an idiot to fish idea.
and there IS such a thing as a stupid question. don't let anyone tell you otherwise.