Long story short - I've been stuck in a bad mood for a year or more complaining about everything and being negative without really realising it.
Caught up with an old friend who called me out on it and said this thing that might be really obvious to you but really stuck with me and made me reflect :
It's easy to be negative, but it takes hard work to be positive.
I thought on it for ages and I was being completely lazy + negative an getting nothing but more unhappiness from it which in a way validated my shit attitude.
Switched my thinking around and put all my effort into being positive about everything - making positive decisions not excuses, and iv been feeling awesome the past week. The effort really paid off and I now just feel a whole lot happier.
I know everyone's got different problems and somethings don't just go away, not trying to be preachy or anything just maybe someone finds it as helpful as me.
Caught up with an old friend who called me out on it and said this thing that might be really obvious to you but really stuck with me and made me reflect :
It's easy to be negative, but it takes hard work to be positive.
I thought on it for ages and I was being completely lazy + negative an getting nothing but more unhappiness from it which in a way validated my shit attitude.
Switched my thinking around and put all my effort into being positive about everything - making positive decisions not excuses, and iv been feeling awesome the past week. The effort really paid off and I now just feel a whole lot happier.
I know everyone's got different problems and somethings don't just go away, not trying to be preachy or anything just maybe someone finds it as helpful as me.