yayitsducky
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We're all faries on the road, your name is your reputation, and that means something. We all have such funny noun-names, no more than five letters allowed! (I don't know any queers with names more than a few letters, and I've found a decent overlap between the queer community and the traveler community, for obvious reasons)
I've gone through names like I've gone through people, which is to say, I burned quite a few bridges in my reckless youth (nothing terrible, no bodily harm or anything, just being kind of a spoiled brat) but I am attending therapy and working on being a better steward to my fellow human.
Ducky, my old childhood nickname, is starting to feel more and more like me. My family hates it because it's not the one the chose. They refuse both my chosen name (the one that aligns more closely with my gender) and my road name (the name I give to all my fellow travelers, the name that carries my reputation) My parents say it's "juvenile". Ducky was a name gifted to me by an old friend while we were sick watching Land Before Time. And now, in my current age, it's been re-gifted by a friend who jokingly calls herself "the Pteri to your Ducky!".
Dinosaurs have always followed me-- did you know I knew my dinosaurs before I knew my colors? My mother often told this tale, of an old toy. A green plastic parasaurolophus (the duck-billed dinosaur, my namesake). It was lime green, striped with emerald. I would always proclaim that it was "PURPLE PARASAUROLOPHUS!". I got the pronunciation perfect, yet color theory didn't take hold in my brain for a few more decades, not until art class with Mrs. Keyes in middle school. And I share the cartoon character's bubbly personality, "YEP YEP YEP!" is an unironic catchphrase of mine. For me, Ducky is the name of forests, and ageless beings, and connections to eons past and eons in the future. Ducky is a reminder that I should remember the good and not fear the extinction.
So you see, even if my family refuses to call me by my chosen name or my road name, I will forever be Ducky. The choice is not theirs, the choice is mine. I am Ducky! And it's lovely to meet all of you.
Why have you chosen your name? Silly or profound as the reason might be, I'd love to read about it, about you and your journey to your silly noun-name. Or, if you've kept your birthname, what history does it hold? Or do you just like the sound of it, does it just feel like you?
I've gone through names like I've gone through people, which is to say, I burned quite a few bridges in my reckless youth (nothing terrible, no bodily harm or anything, just being kind of a spoiled brat) but I am attending therapy and working on being a better steward to my fellow human.
Ducky, my old childhood nickname, is starting to feel more and more like me. My family hates it because it's not the one the chose. They refuse both my chosen name (the one that aligns more closely with my gender) and my road name (the name I give to all my fellow travelers, the name that carries my reputation) My parents say it's "juvenile". Ducky was a name gifted to me by an old friend while we were sick watching Land Before Time. And now, in my current age, it's been re-gifted by a friend who jokingly calls herself "the Pteri to your Ducky!".
Dinosaurs have always followed me-- did you know I knew my dinosaurs before I knew my colors? My mother often told this tale, of an old toy. A green plastic parasaurolophus (the duck-billed dinosaur, my namesake). It was lime green, striped with emerald. I would always proclaim that it was "PURPLE PARASAUROLOPHUS!". I got the pronunciation perfect, yet color theory didn't take hold in my brain for a few more decades, not until art class with Mrs. Keyes in middle school. And I share the cartoon character's bubbly personality, "YEP YEP YEP!" is an unironic catchphrase of mine. For me, Ducky is the name of forests, and ageless beings, and connections to eons past and eons in the future. Ducky is a reminder that I should remember the good and not fear the extinction.
So you see, even if my family refuses to call me by my chosen name or my road name, I will forever be Ducky. The choice is not theirs, the choice is mine. I am Ducky! And it's lovely to meet all of you.
Why have you chosen your name? Silly or profound as the reason might be, I'd love to read about it, about you and your journey to your silly noun-name. Or, if you've kept your birthname, what history does it hold? Or do you just like the sound of it, does it just feel like you?