Cuddling with close friends

Definitely agree that cuddling with a close friend, of either sex, is a fantastic way to get comfort and a feeling of safety. Only if they don't try for more, though, cuz that changes the dynamics...experienced both ways.

Of course, if you WANT the other person, and things heat up, that's totally cool too, but that's another subject, LOL.
 
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I still haven't found friends that are ok with this type of display, while it's awesome, i can only see myself doing it with my fiance, but I have thought about opening up more, and trying to get closer to people, but its always my instinct to think it is wrong,not that it is, ive just been in emotionally abusive relationships, it always stops me.
 
Noooope. Nope nope nope.
That is 10 pounds of 'nope' in a 5 pound bag.
I'm not a big fan of people touching me or getting into my personal space. So group cuddling is a no go. Hell it takes me a while to warm up to even cuddling with a significant other.

Although I guess I shouldn't say it will never happen, I would just prefer it didn't.
 
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Noooope. Nope nope nope.
That is 10 pounds of 'nope' in a 5 pound bag.
I'm not a big fan of people touching me or getting into my personal space. So group cuddling is a no go. Hell it takes me a while to warm up to even cuddling with a significant other.

Although I guess I shouldn't say it will never happen, I would just prefer it didn't.

no offense, but i'm actually kind of surprised to hear that, i always pictured you as a cuddly person :P

as for me, i'd take cuddling over sex right now, most of the booty i've been getting over the past few years has been pretty underwhelming.
 
@Matt Derrick You wouldn't be the only one. It seems that I give off the impression that I like that sort of thing but nope. I'm not a germ-a-phobe or anything like that, I just get extremely annoyed very quickly when people touch me. Just ask @Cornelius Vango, "Andy is a dainty little flower, that will bite your fucking head off" or something to that effect.

I'm also not big on hugging people I've just met. Only close friends. The worst is when people give you shit for that, which happens. Siiiiigh.
 
Noooope. Nope nope nope.
That is 10 pounds of 'nope' in a 5 pound bag.
I'm not a big fan of people touching me or getting into my personal space. So group cuddling is a no go. Hell it takes me a while to warm up to even cuddling with a significant other.

Although I guess I shouldn't say it will never happen, I would just prefer it didn't.
10 out of 10 can relate to this. I have space issue's. That's it. Back to back for warmth maybe....Also fun old thread.