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    SE Asia this December - squats, food, freights, tips, etc?

    I really dont think those men were trying to kill you... They see some unsafe euro- amer weirdos having a fire and doing what exactly in their jungle? They prob just didnt no what to make of it. If they were going to mess with you for bribes they would have. Anyway if they wanted to kill you...
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    After so many years, the sadness is still here.

    We're the same age. I have the same memories of the Challenger explosion. Though my memory was feeling uncomfortable that no one else seemed to get that it had blown up for a long while. It was weird. And then thinking about that teacher and her body blown to smithereens. It was very sad. And...
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    SE Asia this December - squats, food, freights, tips, etc?

    Hmm camping in the jungle in SE Asia that sounds like a perfect idea. Cause you know its like camping in your backyard. Theres no centipedes, monkeys with teeth the size of daggers, huge flying bugs I had never seen the likes of, huge rats wuth weird growths on their backs, and just a myriad of...
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    Most common question as a solo female van-dweller.

    Just read a reply from above and it may have to do with body size also. I am 5'3 petite. My friend who is a 6'1 woman has never been hassled in a bar by a guy, never had men act aggressive towards her and I remember finding it shocking.
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    Most common question as a solo female van-dweller.

    I traveled all over the US (van camping, tent camping in the woods), traveled Asia and some Central America. Its a common question. When I leave the country it comes alot from women because they are scared for me, think I am brave or I am naive. I have had quite a few conversations about this...
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    The struggle of Radical Parents with Patriarchy in a super sensitive millennial age where intrusive opinions & comments prevail.

    Culture is naturally passed down from Elders to youth. Now every generation changes everything usually from the bottom up. Producing extreme stress and confusion. This is unnatural. As someone who has lived all over the world epecially with Tradional cultures, young people dont dictate how the...
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    Photos Street art of south east asia

    This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing! Give Thailand a big kiss for me. I miss her. America stinks...
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    The struggle of Radical Parents with Patriarchy in a super sensitive millennial age where intrusive opinions & comments prevail.

    So lost in rhetoric your mind is a spinning chasm that only your "self" can sane. The problem is your "self" is a construct. You are a construct, it must be disassembled.
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    surviving the winter of my isolated mind advice

    Try om meditation. You can find it on youtube. Read some books: 100 Years of Solitude (there is no solitude in this) Monkey Hunting (love this book) The Tibetan Book of Life and Death (Ancient book) Try talking to your mom more. Get to know her past before she was "mom". I usually find...
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    LETS TALK ABOUT RAPE!

    I just posted about this in another thread and a person didnt agree with me. I will repost here. I have had near rape encounters many times with strangers but luckily was somewhat sober and somehow got out of it. Though I have been raped twice by male friends. This is the previous post, I...
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    how to deal, too many puppies

    I like it.
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    how do you deal with past abuse you have committed?

    @salxtina Hi I see where you are coming from but I don't feel that way. I have little emotions connected to the rape, at the time I was sickened by it but then let it go. I am an attractive woman who knows how male sexuality works. In an ideal world yes obviously he should have never tried to...
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    Happily houseless quits social media???

    Geez what a wus. Needing to shower twice a day and your living on the road?.... Another millenial who wants wear the idea of counter culture but can never embody the principles. For many mid 30s and under its all about a look and no substance. To my mind the whole point is to get away from...
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    how do you deal with past abuse you have committed?

    I think learning or having compassion for yourself and your victims helps tremendously. I was raped when I was around 25 by a "friend". He got me drunk and I should have known. I do take partial responsibility since in my travels I am the only one watching out for me and I should have saw it...
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    Well I got screwed over today. Can anybody help?

    Just saw your in FL. Yeah I'd stay there. Oregon blows...
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    Well I got screwed over today. Can anybody help?

    I have land you can stay on. You asked for help right? Its in Oregon. No idea where you are. Wishing you all the best this evening.