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    What happens when people find out you're trans?

    Trans boy here. It totally depends. I don't out myself in general, but rather only to trusted folx. Pre medical transition, I was in a very androgynous, are-you-a-boy-or-a-girl place for, oh, decades. I was almost always read just a touch more on the male side so that actually made life a bit...
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    If you had to Disappear...

    I'm in the 'deep within a national park' camp myself. On passports: I've driven into Canada & did not have to show mine, just my license. Good luck!
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    cross-country gym membership

    I've had a YMCA membership in one town and paid $1.00 to use other Y's across the country. Now I go to planet fitness, which is much cheaper (I have the $10 / month option which give you gym & shower). Both take from a bank account, which I personally don't like, but bleh. Also-my PF is in a...
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    Does anyone else just.... Never miss people?

    I love and need my solitude. Every time I feel like I ought to get out there amongst the humans I end up an anxious mess. Yesterday I went into my nearby (used to be cool) city & was so overwhelmed. People I know don't understand that not every queer person wants to live in a city! I'm a country...
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    Journals, who has the habit?

    Me! I've kept a journal consistently since the 1980s. I went through and burned a chunk of them years ago but yea I still write.
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    Why don't you have sex?

    Same here, brother. I find guys lose interest immediately upon my disclosing I'm trans or they get way too interested / fetishy / gross. Its interesting to me that pre medical transition, when I identified more as genderqueer or gender neutral, I was a fucking machine! Now that I'm sober and so...
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    Hey all! Older trans forest elf here :D

    Awesome, hey! Nice to meet you !
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    Advice for Solo Lady Travellers

    good advice cheers
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    Hey all! Older trans forest elf here :D

    Hullo folx! I was on the board here a while back & decided really its where I belong. The rest of 'social media' makes me crazy. I'm an older (47), poly trans queer Anarchist forest elf who grew up in the mountains of NY state homesteading before it was cool haha. I started traveling in 1990 &...
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    Hi from south jersey.

    Welcome. I'm originally from NY State. Nice trans flag, me too
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    Dumb Question. Should I go where lots of vagabonds/homeless are?

    Ii started years ago in the NE, traveled west, back and forth, and have been in the SE now for a number of years. I tend to stay out of cities (I'm a forest elf after all). My observation of city lfe is that the more homeless folks, the more police presence and hassle. I live outsidea small town...
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    long distance bus, what to expect

    Truth! Those drivers do not fuck around.
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    long distance bus, what to expect

    For years, basically all through my 20s, I did most of my cross country (NY to OR mainly) via Greyhound. It can suck. I did meet fellow like minded travelers but they were few and far between. You'll stink, your fellow passengers will stink (those windows don't open!). Bring food, water...
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    queerz?

    queer here; a trans queer at that ;)
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    Hello from S. Carolina

    Welcome from western NC! I love seeing older folx here. Cheers