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I am at a point in my life where I've lost all of my friends. Basically I think every single day that I'm not who I'm supposed to be because I didn't do the things that I had intuitive feelings to do and instead I've let fear and the desire to be comfortable run my entire life. Does anyone else have stuff like this going on?
 
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bip

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I am at a point in my life where I've lost all of my friends. Basically I think every single day that I'm not who I'm supposed to be because I didn't do the things that I had intuitive feelings to do and instead I've let fear and the desire to be comfortable run my entire life. Does anyone else have stuff like this going on?
And as far as missed connections go, my friend slayer is having health problems in the dallas area. He's the best musician in the world and a really solid dude. He doesn't deserve to die uncomfortable
 

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I am at a point in my life where I've lost all of my friends. Basically I think every single day that I'm not who I'm supposed to be because I didn't do the things that I had intuitive feelings to do and instead I've let fear and the desire to be comfortable run my entire life. Does anyone else have stuff like this going on?
I understand this 100%, I passed up and am still sometimes passing up on the opportunity to do things out of wanting to be "comfortable". Lost almost all my friends because I never wanted to take them up on an invitation to travel or go out or go somewhere. Also missed out on a few relationships because my anxiety when I smoked weed got the best of me, often think about where I would be if I had always said yes instead of no. Now I dont smoke weed and trying not to be as introverted and say yes more..."trying".
 

Romanriff

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I've been feeling the same lately. Out on the road, I've seen a lot of shit I probably shouldn't have seen and I feel like I'm coming to terms with how much sadness and fear I have for the world but then I can't tell I'm just being a pussy. I haven't really lost friends because the ones I have now house me up but I feel like I could be doing the things I want more comfortably if I wasn't always up in my head about things.
 

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Dude bip yo its john the trainhopper you met at courthouse years back dont be afraid to say what's up I'm on insta. I'm going through alot of the same stuff and I'm always here to chat.
 

bip

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I've been feeling the same lately. Out on the road, I've seen a lot of shit I probably shouldn't have seen and I feel like I'm coming to terms with how much sadness and fear I have for the world but then I can't tell I'm just being a pussy. I haven't really lost friends because the ones I have now house me up but I feel like I could be doing the things I want more comfortably if I wasn't always up in my head about things.
I was honestly traumatized from action all the time but I got over it, I guess Its more in my subconscious where I'm afraid of faith
 

signofjonah

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bip I feel the way you describe all the time. In fact I've come to realize it's not even abnormal to feel this way in our culture anymore. Unfortunately this damn plague and responsibilities to my family have kept me a virtual prisoner so I can't go off the farm right now, but if 2021 starts to turn a corner or I lose my mind, I'm gonna be sprouting legs and going somewhere.
 

Souljuice76

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Bip, I do understand your feeling on this. I too have let the fear of the unknown get the best of me. I've wanted to live mobile forawhile and forge a new trail with a crew of folks and take an alternative route in life, but the fear of what others think and also other fears have kept me back. I have a few good friends in my life thankfully... and I think to myself maybe that's all I need.

These are some rough times we are living in, I wish that we could all get back on the right track as a people and stop going back to the things that harm us.
 

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