My name is Joe Winko ♥ (1 Viewer)

[MFB]

My buddy has a "Men of Food Not Bombs" calendar, from early 2000's hanging in his kitchen. It's actually quite good!

Sure, "Dudes and Dongs of Food Not Bombs 2004"
Mr. Febuary is my favorite. He's a babe!

Just remember; its only okay if we objectify cis males!

 

[Deleted member 24782]

Sure, "Dudes and Dongs of Food Not Bombs 2004"
Mr. Febuary is my favorite. He's a babe!

Just remember; its only okay if we objectify cis males!

Yes! Me and most all my cis male friends call each other fags on the job site, this is a form of endearment considering most of us are kinda gay anyways.

 

[Older Than Dirt]

Lots of kissing other men, and general swishing, was de rigeur among the ultra-macho cis het industrial-rock/post-punk (Swans/Foetus/Revolting Cocks) dudes i used to hang with in the '90s.

One of their main characteristics as a tribe, besides the obsessive TV sports watching, and the truly heroic drinking, and acid eating. Oh, and the punk-rock softball league (Alzheimers vs. Tourettes, every sunny Sunday).

 

[iamwhatiam]

Yes! Me and most all my cis male friends call each other fags on the job site, this is a form of endearment considering most of us are kinda gay anyways.

Yeah....that's cute and all, but I personally think it's a pretty derogatory word to be throwin around regardless of whether you're just kidding around with your mates. What are we in high school still? For some of us, that word brings back memories of being continually bullied and harassed growing up.

And, you can't be kinda gay......just like you can't be kinda pregnant.

Sorry to be that stuck up politically correct dude, but just wanted to get that off my chest. But whatever.....keep doin you!

 

[Deleted member 24782]

Yeah....that's cute and all, but I personally think it's a pretty derogatory word to be throwin around regardless of whether you're just kidding around with your mates. What are we in high school still? For some of us, that word brings back memories of being continually bullied and harassed growing up.

And, you can't be kinda gay......just like you can't be kinda pregnant.

Sorry to be that stuck up politically correct dude, but just wanted to get that off my chest. But whatever.....keep doin you!

Thank you. Your not being politically correct, because you are gay. But there is this "kinda gay/fashionably gay" thing going on with straight males who subconsciously use this tactic to actually just get more vagina. It happens, it's weird. So two out of my group of straight guys have experimented sexually with men in the past so it's like we have this "understanding" but really your right were just being ignorant high school dumb asses, sexuality is strange.

Oh but then you meet some of these more "normal" gay guys who call things gay as derogatory and thats just a mind fuck right there!

 

[iamwhatiam]

Thank you. Your not being politically correct, because you are gay. But there is this "kinda gay/fashionably gay" thing going on with straight males who subconsciously use this tactic to actually just get more vagina. It happens, it's weird. So two out of my group of straight guys have experimented sexually with men in the past so it's like we have this "understanding" but really your right were just being ignorant high school dumb asses, sexuality is strange.

Oh but then you meet some of these more "normal" gay guys who call things gay as derogatory and thats just a mind fuck right there!

Thanks for the decent reply. I get that it's a strange way for guys to joke around with their masculinity or use it for comaraderie or whatever, but I can't help but cringe every time I hear that word. To me it's akin to people throwing around the word nigga/nigger. Is it "reclaiming" the word, or is it subtly perpetuating homophobia/racism? I don't know. Something to think about.

Anyways, I had just woken up when I made that reply and I can get bitchy before I get food in my stomach. Carry on lol. Welcome Joe Winko

 

[Gibbyotrl]

Love your Spirit! And your look. Honestly it reminds me of a little Gnome hat. I use to collect them and still have a few around. They all seem to have their own "impish" flair and that fits your personality. They just tend to have a bigger belly...lol. You could be the model for the new improved gnomes.

Oh yeah, need some facial hair too.
Stay safe and have fun
Gibby