Sure, "Dudes and Dongs of Food Not Bombs 2004"
Mr. Febuary is my favorite. He's a babe!
Just remember; its only okay if we objectify cis males!
Yeah....that's cute and all, but I personally think it's a pretty derogatory word to be throwin around regardless of whether you're just kidding around with your mates. What are we in high school still? For some of us, that word brings back memories of being continually bullied and harassed growing up.Yes! Me and most all my cis male friends call each other fags on the job site, this is a form of endearment considering most of us are kinda gay anyways.
Yeah....that's cute and all, but I personally think it's a pretty derogatory word to be throwin around regardless of whether you're just kidding around with your mates. What are we in high school still? For some of us, that word brings back memories of being continually bullied and harassed growing up.
And, you can't be kinda gay......just like you can't be kinda pregnant.
Sorry to be that stuck up politically correct dude, but just wanted to get that off my chest. But whatever.....keep doin you!
Thanks for the decent reply. I get that it's a strange way for guys to joke around with their masculinity or use it for comaraderie or whatever, but I can't help but cringe every time I hear that word. To me it's akin to people throwing around the word nigga/nigger. Is it "reclaiming" the word, or is it subtly perpetuating homophobia/racism? I don't know. Something to think about.Thank you. Your not being politically correct, because you are gay. But there is this "kinda gay/fashionably gay" thing going on with straight males who subconsciously use this tactic to actually just get more vagina. It happens, it's weird. So two out of my group of straight guys have experimented sexually with men in the past so it's like we have this "understanding" but really your right were just being ignorant high school dumb asses, sexuality is strange.
Oh but then you meet some of these more "normal" gay guys who call things gay as derogatory and thats just a mind fuck right there!